I had a high school girlfriend we were so close and I love her so I ask for date but she ask me to wait till her graduation. Its almost 4 years I'm still waiting for her and its her final year. Recently she told me that we cannot go together and I should no longer wait for her so I ask what was the problem and she didn't said anything after a week she told me that she is dating with a new guy she knew recently. Im so broken looking back at my past years because I love her so much and I don't know what to do now. Please help with some advice.

Did you and she talk during those four years? Was she dating?

Yes we talk almost every day

If she is dating someone, it sounds like your waiting is finished. Time to forget her and move ahead with your life.

Im thinking of meeting her for one last time is it okey... if she agrees

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Originally Posted by Lima jamir

Im thinking of meeting her for one last time is it okey...if she agrees

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Why?

Why would you want to meet with her when she has found someone else. I wouldn't waste anymore time on her.

So that I will tell her to go well with him and not to do the same with that guy

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Originally Posted by Lima jamir

So that i will tell her to go well with him and not to do the same with that guy

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Just let her be. No need to lecture her. Move on and don't waste any more time on her.

I am 70 yrs old, and have been through many things similar to this. She said she found someone else. My girlfriend in 1962 found someone else while we were attending different colleges. It really hurt.
Please get yourself together, and start meeting some new girls. You can do it. She has already told you it's over. Don't see her again. It will only hurt that much more. Best of luck to you, and I wish you the very best.

No you do not meet with her "one more time" in fact you do not call her, don't talk to her again. Don't email, don't text.

I will assume you live in a culture where this is common, since in the US, this is not really done, and there is no waiting four years for someone.

You wasted your time, and really need to start dating people who want to date now

Thanks for the advice

Okey then if I don't meet her what if I write a letter to her...