I'm 23, I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, and we only have sex maybe once every few weeks. He swears he enjoys sex but says its just never been important to him. Every time I go to touch him or get him in the mood he pulls my hand away and gets all giddy and says to calm down that I'm such a horndog (gee I wonder why). If anything he lets me give him head but never returns the favor or wants to have sex.about 2 months into the relationship he did tell me that we shouldn't do it as much because he doesn't want us to get bored of each other, but still. It angers me and makes me sad feeling unwanted or undesirable. I don't believe him when he says that he's never liked sex that much and it isn't important to him because I have already been in a past relationship where I wasn't physically attracted to the guy and that's exactly what I told him. My currant boyfriend loves me to death and everything about me... he doesn't have sex with me as often as id like and its making me crazy!

It bothers me that you are not getting your needs met and it also bothers me that he doesn't seem concerned with meeting your sexual needs. I say embrace your "horn dog" self and he should too!

At 23, you have your whole life ahead of you. I am 70, lost my wife of 30 yrs, 6 yrs ago. If sex is important to you (it is to me!), then leave and start looking around for another man. A good relationship is based on trust, faith, respect, and talking about everything. If he really isn't interested in sex, then you are the one who is suffering; not him. Look around. Find someone who really likes all the aspects of a good relationship. I do wish you the best of luck.