My Girlfriend wants me back and I need a little advice.
Okay, so I posted a question a few weeks ago - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...do-709158.html
It has been 12 weeks since I last saw her 8 weeks since the break then split therefore we have been apart for 2 months now.
I have been out with my friends a lot more, been doing more fitness, keeping myself busy, socializing and even meeting a few new girls. I feel better for having more of a life now, but I still miss her, even more so than before.
She has been texting me a lot sometimes bringing up questions about the relationship and what not, saying she has changed, she has realized what a she has been and know I will never take her back. She said the biggest mistake she made was breaking up with me and letting me go and she still loves me as much as she did in the relationship. I ended up telling her I don't want to hear it, so she rarely brings it up now, but still does. Especially when she is drunk.
Now, before you get the wrong idea, I never text her first, she always text me. I didn't reply to her to start with, but then she started asking me random questions completely off the subject that I thought was harmless, i.e. work related. Whenever she does text me, I try and keep it short, not rude, but so hard to keep a conversation going, it does run very thin and eventually comes to an end, (not through her lack of trying).
As far as she is concerned, I have moved on, I can live without her, I'm not bothered whether she texts me or not and so on... but the reality of it is, the longer I am away from her, the more I miss her, and the harder it is getting, this just means I have been doing more and more so I don't have time to think about it haha. About 2 weeks ago, she text me saying she wants to talk about everything at Christmas when she is back from uni, I said leave it with me and I'll let you know, she replied okay, so I saw this as an opportunity to think about it, however it was not even 24 hours before she was texting me again.
She has made a mistake by letting me go, because I know, as well as been told throughout the years, I am a catch, I believe her when she says she has made a mistake, and I also believe her when she says she still loves me. But what do I do about this conversation? I know the outcome of some questions will make my answer no, depending on what she says. I have not let her know I miss her, and love her more and more every day, nor have I said I want to give it another go, as I am not entirely 100% sure yes, but if all goes well, should I give her a second chance?
