Originally Posted by
DaniiLuvsUx3
you are alot like me, and as im writing this to you im going to realize im answering my own life... and please dnt take offense to anything im saying... when u get into a relationship its almost like u feel as if uve invested in it... and you have to make it work even when its obviously failing.i mean of course only you know what you want, but ur sense of knowing gets blinded by love. just because two people love each other does not mean they should be together, and i know how hard that is to think about because he literally has become ur whole world, but the way you guys are is not healthy, i think before u make any serious desicions the two of you should take a temporary break, go stay at ur moms for a week or two... however long u want... keep communication limited and see how you feel... that first step will help u decide what your next step should be. if he is not willing to change and make tht effort for you, then its not worth it... u are obviously miserable in your life, noone should feel like that... if you do decide to take tht break and realize u still want to b with him, u need to make sure things dnt go bck to how they were... keep ur guard up, and please, if it just goes back, get out... if you two really are meant to be it will happen... it might just be the wrong time... u deserve happiness, everyone does.