OK.we were laying together naked, and his penis rubbed against me, on the outside. He didn't go in.he didn't come.I've never had any guy come before so I'm pretty sure I'd know if he did.about a week later I had two days of spotting,but I don't have regular period anyway and I run a lot and I've had spottings before.it's been over a week now. I'm not tired, I'm not having unusual cravings, I'm not having cramps, I'm not feeling nauseated.I took one home-test yesterday(so well after a week) and it came up negative. Is it still possible that I could be pregnant? Help!

If you don't know how babies happen you shouldn't be having sex...

And honestly.. you DON'T know much about it because if you did you would know he doesn't have to ejaculate to make you pregnant.

You HAVE to treat the male member like a leaking water hose... if you play around with it, then you are going to get wet.

You HAVE to treat the male member like a leaking water hose... if you play around with it, then you are going to get wet.[/QUOTE]

Again... that line is priceless!!

Interesting. I've been married for 17 years, been with other guys other than hubby (before I was married) and I have never ever ever felt any of them ejaculate in me. I don't think that most women feel it when a man ejaculates in them.

But that's beside the point. Plenty of sperm in pre-ejaculate to get you pregnant, and it doesn't have to go inside, it just has to be close to the goal.

Wait a week or two, if you don't get your period, test again using first morning urine.