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  • Dec 11, 2012, 10:42 PM
    Trueblue572
    16 don't know if this guy likes me?
    There's a guy that is in my class, and he is probably the cutest guy I have ever seen. He's a Senior and I'm a junior. He hangs out with mostly guys and I hang out with mostly girls. When I'm in class with him my friend says that he looks at me a lot. In a guys perspective, does looking at a girl mean anything? And I have talked to him before, but not much. How do I talk to him more? I'm not one to go after guys so easy. I've never been kissed or asked to anything. And I dress respectable, always in dresses (by choice). And I think I'm pretty, but that sounds conceited.
  • Dec 11, 2012, 11:13 PM
    peacemaker129
    Guys are so confusing, especially in situations like this one. For one I’d start by talking to him more often, small talk, nothing serious. Also something you could do is “jokingly” ask his friend who tells you he’s looking at you something like this, “You really think he likes me don’t you? You’re insane.” Keep it low key and act like your getting a good laugh out of what he’s saying. His friend might be like “Yeah, he talks about you a lot too.” You never know until you try! On your looks, I’m sure you are stunning. Never let the way you look get in the way of what you want. If he really doesn’t like you because of something as shallow as LOOKS, then he’s a lost cause, not worth your time. I hope this helped! Sorry you’re having guy issues, I wish they’d get better, but guys will always and forever be confusing as hell.
  • Dec 12, 2012, 05:28 AM
    C0bra_M3nace
    I think it's safe to say he has some form of interest in you if he's looking at you a lot. So the next step would be getting to know him.
  • Dec 12, 2012, 08:49 AM
    SweetPea95
    All right hon. Lets break the ice first :) If he is a sporty guy talk about sports, if he is a game guy ask what kind of games he likes, if he is an outdoors guy, talk about hunting and fishing, something like that. Breaking the ice at first might seem a little difficult but once you break it, it smoother sailing after that. Find out his interests. He probably is checking you out, you say you are pretty, well maybe he thinks the same :) just try to talk to him more. Build a strong friend relationship first, don't go fast. If you see him looking your way, smile. Usually that makes him smile back or blush. :) guys don't like things poured on them (not talking about drinks our anything) I'm talking about the I like you, more than friends thing.

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