Today one of my friends came up to me and said she was super mad at me. I asked why and she said because I didn't scoot over on the bus. Now allof my friends are giving me the silent treatment and like putting rude stuff in my locker at school. What should I do. All I have done yet is cry my eyes out.

Rude stuff like what?

This is so middle school drama. All because you didn't scoot over?

It does sound rather childish really. What age group are we talking about?

If you just put up with it for a few days, I'm sure it will all blow over and things will go back to the way they were.

They keep on putting stuff in like notes like we ahte you. And like rude pictures like one of them is a really good drawer and she drew a picture of like people throwing stuff at me. I wish that it would just bow over in a few days. We have had at least seven fight in the last few weeks. I just don't know what to do because she has been my best friends since third grade. I think that if I drop her then all of my other friends will drop me to. This ma seem childish to you but if you have ever been ailienated so quick like that then you would be worried too. Seriously just give me advice so I can have friends again

Ignore it. Or, make clever jokes about it and the notes and any pictures. If they see you are laughing and it doesn't bother you, they will stop. The only reason they do this is to get a reaction out of you. Don't give them any reaction, at least not a mad or sad or negative one.

Now, time to confess and be honest. You would do this to someone else, wouldn't you, especially if everyone else is piling on that person.

No I wouldn't stay with the girl that didn't get the seat. I would be buds with the girl that wouldn't scoot over. I just wish people would do the same thing and be nice to me. I honestly like everybody to have friends but nobody else does obviosly. Would you side with the seatless girl who by the way got one three seconds later or the girl that wuldnt scoot over.

I wouldn't side with anyone. Taking sides is immature.

So your saying that you would just stand back and watch all of this happen and not sayinganything. I havr looked at the notes and pics and tried to find something funny or something that I could comment on but it all just makes me sad to look at. Is it normal to be going through somethong like this.

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Originally Posted by chonchoiscool

so your saying that you would just stand back and watch all of this happen and not sayinganything. i havr looked at the notes and pics and tried to find something funny or something that i could comment on but it all just makes me sad to look at. is it normal to be going through somethong like this.

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I would find a way to get the warring individuals or groups to compromise and to be friends again. Yes, it's normal.