Hey. I lost my virginity when I was 16 & since then I have had 4 partners. I really don't feel anything when I'm having sex except for when they go "deep" and hit something. It's not like a pleasure feeling but more of a "okay I felt that" I have never had an orgasm & I've tried every position possible. Even anal . And still nothing. When the guy I'm dating now gives me oral it's just like a wet tongue. No feeling like all my friends talk about. Even kissing me on my neck or sucking my breast doesn't "turn me on" I thought maybe I was gay but I don't have any sexual feelings towards females. I'm sexually attracted to boyfriend but I just don't get that big boom when we are having sex. I don't know what could be wrong .

Please help

So when you masturbate do you climax ?

You have to learn how to please yourself, and teach them how it is done.

Many women never climax during actual intercourse, but will do so in fore play or after play.

I think you are not getting what you need as per your mind.
So stop thinking and try to know what makes you wet at below.. like forplay for long time, sit in front of mirror and like your and so on..
You can try group sex where you are single may be after 1st guy you get wet and enjoy the second..
Please note there is no rocket science for pleasure during sex.. just try to be in it more and more...

Oh not good..
This happen as a result of masturbation, fear and brain disturbance.