My boyfriend wanted to cheat on me
I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for more than 4 years. We were high school sweethearts but when he started college we separated for a year and a half, from which half of the time we kept in contact and ended up seeing each other even though we started causally seeing other people. We got back together 2 years ago.
We've had our ups and downs like every other couple but it's always because of attitudes, being too stubborn, but nothing too serious. We always talk things out and move on.
(These last few months) He treats me like I am the most precious, delicate thing he has ever laid eyes on, he is so sweet to me. He's always reminding me how much he loves me and loves spending time with me and that he can't wait to see me. I obviously do the same.
But here's the tricky part.
When I went to spend Thursday night with him, we sort of had plans to go out but decided to ditch that and stay in and talk, cuddle, etc. It really was an amazing night. The next morning, I went to take a bath but told him I wanted to listen to a song so he left the laptop in the bathroom. I went to log into my Facebook but found out that his was still open. Curiosity took over me so I went to his inbox messages. They were all from his guy friends (duh) so I clicked his archived messages and I found conversations with these whores he hooked up with when we weren't together. HE said to one of them (11 days ago to be exact) that they should remember the old times in Bosque 51 (were they hooked up apparently; his best friend's place), and she has been the on and off girlfriend of one of his close guy friends, Willy. She has been such a c*nt with him but he always takes her back. So not only was he betraying me, but his friend. When I stormed out of the bathroom I started to pack my stuff to leave and when I showed him what I saw, he grabbed me and begged me not to leave like that and to talk things out. I told him to let go and that I wanted to leave, that really hurt him because I always beg him to stay 5 more minutes. Before he leaves. He started crying so much and telling me that he was such a prick for doing that, that he couldn't picture himself without me and he swore on his grandma's life that he didn't do anything. That Im everything to him and that I don't deserve anything hurtful and that he was so sorry for writing that. He actually admitted that he got me a pre-compromise ring for christmas. I don't know what to think, or what to do. I really love him, he's everything to me. Please someone help me get through this.