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  • Dec 8, 2012, 05:21 PM
    Milwaukeeguy
    Told ex girlfriend that I still had feelings for her. Now what?
    My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. She said that I didn't show her that I would fight for her and that I took her for granted. It sucks because we work together though not in the same department but we see each other everyday. She told me she wanted to remain friends but we rarely talked after the breakup. A few weeks ago we started talking again via email and text. Then this past week she started telling me about some funny comedians coming to her second job and that I should check them out. However, she said that I probably wouldn't show up. So I showed up at the comedy club and she was excited to see me and even got me in for free. Another co-worker and some of her friends showed up and when her shift was done she came to hangout with all of us but completely ignored me. Was about to leave when one of her friends suggested that we all go out downtown afterwards. We all went to a bar where she continued to ignore me. Started talking to my co-worker (good friends with my ex) for a bit and then she came and entered the conversation. My co-worker kind of disappeared along with her friends so it was my ex and I alone. I asked her why she didn't believe that I would come which led her to say that I usually say something and don't follow through. She then brought up our relationship about how much she liked me but felt I never showed her how I felt and how I took her for granted. I apologized to her saying that I was sorry if I ever made her feel that way. Then I told her that I still had feelings for her and that if we communicated better our relationship would work. I also said it's hard for me to work with her and just be her friend. After that we went to grab some late night food at a diner where she told me about a previous relationship where her ex cheated on her so she didn't like giving people another chance. She said she still cared about me but thinks we're doing good as friends now. Once again I told her that I like her more than a friend and that I was crazy about her. She said OK and then I walked her home afterwards. Went out swinging I guess but was wondering what I should do now?

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