What do you think of the astrological reasons my girlfriend can be sweet and yummy and I mean yummy. And then kind of like abrasive for a while. It bothers me sometimes I get worked up and it bugs her. I wish it could be yummy all the time. I love her so much. She is Taurus I am Pisces.

Astrology can be interesting, and offer insights, but it is NOT foolproof. Nothing takes the place of basic communication and getting to know someone.

Over the years I think I have lost some confidence in communication and initiating intimacy.I have been in long term relationships before one for 9 years. I was totally in love and got burned.my girlfriend now is better in every way and hints around marriage and I could totally see it with her.but this thing.I think she wants me to be more assertive and she's open to just about anything.but her abrasive mood makes me think she doesn't want or enjoy it as much as me.I want her to be as happy as me.we cuddle a lot and get it on a few times a week but it seems like I always have to initiate it unless were drinking (only about once a week) then she tears me apart sometimes.

How long have you been with her and how old are you both? Do you live together? Takes time to know the ways of another after the lust wears off, and if you both cannot talk honestly and reach a way to move forward then what's the point?