He's always watched porn, even though he knows it's not okay with me. Same with video games. We have been together for 3 years and are now expecting our first child. I'm 21, and he's 26. He hasn't literally touched me in 2 months, and it hurts. I'm eight months pregnant and work part time evenings, and while I'm at work he's at home watching porn. I guess it's better than him cheating, but still, there are times where I've sat down and cried. On our days off together, he'd rather play his video games then spend time with me. He says he's happy about the baby, yet doesn't get involved with anything. I've wondered if it would be better to leave and support the baby on my own, but all I have is a high school diploma, and rent is expensive.

First off... as an adult male if ANYONE told me I could NOT do something... I'd do it more just on the principle of it...

If you nag him about it you are driving him further away... also being that far along tends to freak some guys out sexually, while it turns other guys on... I think he might be the former.

There is a HUGE difference between talking AT someone rather than talking WITH them.

Remember he is an equal partner and not subservient to you any more than you are to him.


Does he work?