Originally Posted by
linky
hi oliver, i appreciate your attention to my concern. i do praise him for everything he does for me, even the smallest, and he does the same to me. and i accept him for the way he is. he's a really nice person, good manners, he's a good man. I'm 26 and he's 35.
this is one example. sometimes i work till late. when i come home when he's already sleeping, the door of the house has been left open. windows open. last time it rained and my pc got wet ( it still works tho ). i told him about these things the nicest way i can, even tho i was very pissed because I'm very concerned about thief's getting in the house. last night windows has been left opened again. ( baby the windows has been left opened again, i told you about this things) he's reaction ; what! don't talk to me like that, i never talk to you like this when you forget something..... and this is how the arguing starts...
me: why are you yelling back at me, if i don't talk to you this way you're never gonna get a wake up call and take some responsibility. (remember. at this point i have already told'n him in a really nice way about this issue)
he's reaction: I'm giving you a wake up call right now of stop treating me like , and what do you know about responsibility! you're a childish woman.
and this is how i keep getting angrier because he's calling me childish while he can't take his responsibilities, and this is how we keep yelling until it gets in a fight. i want to control myself, thats why i just say sorry and walk away just to quit the huge arguing that can only end up in a fight.