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  • Dec 3, 2012, 12:39 PM
    Komalji
    Chances of pregnancy?
    Me n boyfriend had sex on 15 th oct
    He didn't ejaculate inside but I am bit worried because he put it inside me when there was masturbation done previous to it.. So I took I-pill on 17th oct. and after 2days found brown red blood clots while urination just 2/3 times.
    As my last period was on 18sep this time they came on 22nd oct
    Now in nov they came on 19th nov
    The flow was bit low than it used to be earlier but continued for 4:5 days as earlier. I want to know these periods were sufficient for being sure that I am not pregnant ? Or I need to wait for the next one too? Were these some other bleedings? And is there remains any chance of being pregnant even after having I pill?
    I bought prega news today
    Will be doing the test tomorrow
    I need to ask will it show the acurate results? I need your help
    Please rply
  • Dec 3, 2012, 01:52 PM
    smoothy
    Just so you are aware since you didn't listen in Health or sex ed class...

    He can have a condon ON and still get you pregnant... even if you are on the pill.

    Doing it without a condom is BEGGING to get pregnant.
  • Dec 4, 2012, 04:07 AM
    Komalji
    So what should be done
    I just had prega news test today and it was negative
    Was it enough to make myself sure that I am not pregnant ?
  • Dec 4, 2012, 07:23 AM
    Komalji
    So what should be done
    I just had prega news test today and it was negative
    Was it enough to make myself sure that I am not pregnant ?

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Just so you are aware since you didn't listen in Health or sex ed class...

    He can have a condon ON and still get you pregnant.....even if you are on the pill.

    Doing it without a condom is BEGGING to get pregnant.

  • Dec 4, 2012, 07:31 AM
    smoothy
    You probibly aren't since you had several periods since ten.however with that said... I will qualify even that with the furthe comment... there actually are things called false periods a small percentage of pregnant women get. Google using the terms false period and read up on them.

    I think however the odds you are are very remote.

    In the future you HAVE to make every reasonible precaution o avoid it... but also be ready for it if it happens, because you can use condomes correctly, AND be on the pill and still get pregnant. We have coupl moderators here that hs happenedto... one of them more than once.
  • Dec 5, 2012, 11:19 AM
    Komalji
    Is the negativity of the test not sufficient for me to relax ?

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    You probibly aren't since you had several periods since ten.however with that said...I will qualify even that with the furthe comment...there actually are things called false periods a small percentage of pregnant women get. Google using the terms false period and read up on them.

    I think however the odds you are are very remote.

    In the future you HAVE to make every reasonible precaution o avoid it...but also be ready for it if it happens, because you can use condomes correctly, AND be on the pill and still get pregnant. We have coupl moderators here that hs happenedto...one of them more than once.

  • Dec 5, 2012, 11:42 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Komalji View Post
    Is the negativity of the test not sufficient for me to relax ?

    Not all the time... because taken improperly you get a false negative... or taken too early you get a false negative. Add false periods and you have the possibility of being pregnant and no knowing it despite other indicators.

    But with that said... if you did everything correctly... you can usually count on it. Just wanted to stress its not the end all, beat all answer it might seem.
  • Dec 5, 2012, 12:56 PM
    Komalji
    Yes I am getting your point very well and thanks for your advice too
    But at this stage I can only ask for some help
    I mean whether my symptoms are indicating for my non pregnancy or what
    I mean its been more than one and a half month that I had sex. That was on 15oct
    So as your saying test if done too early can show negative or false results
    So I want to know 45 days are sufficient for it or I still need to worry? I once heard of it test must be performed 2weeks after it
    So if it is true then I have had the test on right time I guess
    What you say
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Not all the time.....because taken improperly you get a false negative...or taken too early you get a false negative. Add in false periods and you have the possibility of being pregnant and no knowing it despite other indicators.

    But with that said....if you did everything correctly....you can usually count on it. Just wanted to stress its not the end all, beat all answer it might seem.

  • Dec 5, 2012, 01:10 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Komalji View Post
    Yes I am getting ur point very well n thanks for ur advice too
    But at this stage I can only ask for some help
    I mean wether my symptoms are indicating for my non pregnancy or what
    I mean its been more than one and a half month that I had sex. That was on 15oct
    So as ur saying test if done too early can show negative or false results
    So I wanna know 45 days are sufficient for it or I still need to worry? I once heard of it test must be performed 2weeks after it
    So if it is true then I have had the test on right time I guess
    What u say

    If its been 45 days since you had sex... then take another test now.. (nothing to gain waiting any longer) maybe try a different brand, first thing in the AM the first time you pee. You are past the 4 week period where false negatives happen from early testing. At this point they are as reliable as they will get as long as you take them correctly.
  • Dec 5, 2012, 01:16 PM
    Komalji
    Yup
    It was done correctly the way it was mentioned over the cover
    Just 3drops on the provided area n yes it was the morning pee which was tested
    So should I start thinking of it that I am not pregnant.
    And for a general knowledge is it possible that u get pregnant even when u had periods for the 2minths
    As in my case...
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    If its been 45 days since you had sex....then take another test now..(nothing to gain waiting any longer) maybe try a different brand, first thing in the AM the first time you pee. You are past the 4 week period where false negatives happen from early testing. At this point they are as reliable as they will get as long as you take them correctly.

  • Dec 5, 2012, 01:47 PM
    smoothy
    Most of the time.. no... False periods are fairly rare (I honeslty don't know the percentage of women that have them)... but they do occur. So most of the time if you are having your periods then you aren't.
  • Dec 5, 2012, 10:38 PM
    Komalji
    Thnk you so much for your answers and your time
    Thanks a lot
    Take care :-)
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Most of the time..no....False periods are fairly rare (I honeslty don't know the percentage of women that have them)...but they do occur. So most of the time if you are having your periods then you aren't.

  • Dec 21, 2012, 10:56 AM
    Komalji
    Mam as expected I got my periods on 19th dec.. It was all normal the flow was same as it used to be... But for 2 days... As today is 3rd day the flow is v low.. Means getting just 2/3 drops and those are light... Generally my periods used to be for4/5 days... Mam m I okay or there is something to worry about?

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