I have been with this guy for almost 5 years. We have a 4 year old together and 2 from my previous marriage. He won't move in but stays every night at my house. Pays for everything but complains about it. Doesn't show affection the way I want him to. Will never admit that he loves me. And when we are with his friends and family hardly says anything to me. But he does a lot for my kids and I. Claims he won't live with me cause my son is bad and doesn't listen. I getting really frustrated not even knowing if he loves me or we have a future. Please I need advice.