I met a great guy about 2 years ago and everything was going great we were totally enjoying each others company. We used to go out on beautiful outings after work. We used to enjoy dinners, movies,walks on the park everything was going great up until we started becomimg intimate about 6 months later. The first few times he was OK with the fact that my butt is flat but after a while he started distancing himself from me to the point that now that we are living together we only have sex every once in a very blue moon. I'm very insecure about my body to start with so of course when I caught him watching porn I was so broken hearted that I have not been the same ever since. Now I am cold and distant and just plain not interested in any stupid excuse he can give me. I need some real help real fast. I feel like I'm just so beyond repair that it's pathetic. Any kind of help would really be appreciated

Why haven't you left? I know, you feel so unattractive now that you feel stuck. Happens all the time. Our job, I guess, is to get you out of your low self esteem and maybe even ANGRY that this guy would rather look at porn than love the woman he lives with. Are you making life too easy for him, cooking and making a cozy nest? If so, stop. If it's your place, kick him out, and if it's his, pack a bag and go stay with a friend while you find a permanent new place.

The fact that your butt is flat or rounded has nothing to do with any of this. You really do realize that, don't you?

That's ridiculous. Don't worry about how you look because this is just some bs excuse that he's using on you.

Tell him it's over, he's a loser.