So I've been dating a my lady for 2 months and things were going good and we've had some small issues but we overcame those and moved forward...

Last week I was sick and she would check up on me and leave me lunch at work since we are coworkers... now I'm one of the first guys she has had a serious relationship with in a long time... and in the first month in a half everything was smooth and the attention was always being brought by both of us via text calls and hanging out in consecutive weekends...

But starting this past weekend she wouldn't respond to my texts but she did invite me over for lunch and we spent time before she went to work on her paper for the night, she would small talk with me at work instead... This week has been somewhat stressful on her because of college finals and final term papers...

So I would cut down my text messages to just 'have a great day' and no response but still small talk at work just to see how things are with her... so today I finally asked if she was doing OK... she says yeah expect she is having multiple personalities... which she was joking... then I told her how she's been different... she says she's mad at a lot of things... but she doesn't want to discuss it at work, so I tell her to tell me when she is ready... then I ask if she's mad at me and she says no... then later I tell her she's being distant... but she says I'm always like that... I tell her I'm not complaining and she says well you shouldn't be... she was excited to hang out with her girlfriends this Friday, I tell her that's good so she can relax a bit

So I asked if she wanted to hang out this Sunday, since she works sat nights and she said she didn't know because she may have to meet up with her tutor either sat night after work or Sunday to finish the paper that's due on Monday... but that it was pending on the tutor because the tutor has a girlfriend who wanted to make plans for the weekend...

So am I overreacting and overanalyzing? Or is this a legit reason to wonder and worry why she's acting this way all of a sudden? It seems a lot of things may be annoying her including me but she hasn't said anything in that regard...

LOL... Yeah I just reassure her she will pass and do well on her finals... and I highly like the 'Act Adult'

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Originally Posted by jaffeyjoeblaze

So am I overreacting and overanalyzing?

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You're not. Your gut is telling you that something is wrong. If she is truly interested, then she will make time for you.

My advice: mirror her moves. When she is distant, you be distant. When she isn't texting, you don't text. If several days pass without contact, then you can be certain she is not interested.