I aarzoo,20yrs old was in a relationship for last 6 months with a guy-28yrs old.. we enjoyed a lot but now his mother is not agree with our relation and so he stopped talking to me as before.. and saying that we should break up as we have no future... I said that I can't liv without you so then he said that I can talk to you as a friend now... not boyfrnd...
M vry much depressed... can't study or eat... exams are on head... feels to commit suicide... I love him a lot...
Sumtyms says that make anothr boyfrnd den u'll forget me... I didn't eat for last 2 days...
What to do m in big problm?
Trying to forget him but cant...
Please tell me what to do... plzzz

Find another boyfriend... you WILL forget about this one.

Smoothy is right. I had a man break my heart almost two and a half years ago. I never thought I would get over it. I did. You will too.

His mother is a big influence as well as a potential problem.

A problem you don't need. Focus on your exams.

Thanks both of u...
But its not that easy to find a trustworthy person... especially in india...
Nyways please tell me that should I keep on talking to him as a friend??
I am not able to undrstnd...

No. Talking as a friend will not allow you to get over him and to heal. No talking, no contact. Forget him and move on.

Keeping him as a friend will be hard in this circumstance. Going froom friend to boyfriend is one thing... going from boyfriend back to friend is something most people will have trouble with. But its not impossible.

But its going to be a point of friction.. he will hope for more.. you will constantly be reminded of how he was.

Lots of problems trying to remain friends... will end in failure for most people. And be more painful.

Thanks engima... but please tell me that should I keep on talking to him as a friend or not..?
I love talking to him... sharing things with him... but now I think its of no use...
I feel that if I stop talkng to him de I won't be able to know about him that how is he?
He is happy or not?
Then what should I do?

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Originally Posted by Enigma1999

Smoothy is right. I had a man break my heart almost two and a half years ago. I never thought I would get over it. I did. You will too.

His mother is a big influence as well as a potential problem.

A problem you don't need. Focus on your exams.

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Thnk u vry much smoothy...
But I miss him... his activities vry much...
Day aftr tomorrow I'm going to buy poison for me... if in future I don't get heal up den I'll quit out

Thank u vry much odinn...

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Originally Posted by Aarzoo ansari

Day aftr tomorrow I m going to buy poison for me...if in future I dont get heal up den I'll quit out

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That's just stupid. You are going to kill yourself over someone? No, that's not right at all. You will find someone better, just give it time.

OMG NO WAY!

Trust me! You will get over it. The man who broke my heart told me he loved me. We shared so much together. I fell for him. He was everything I wanted. He left me when he found out I was pregnant. Broke my heart!

He is no where to be found. I went through this pregnancy by myself. I am raising this beautiful little girl by myself. Every day is a constant remider of what he looks like when I look into her eyes.

I got over it! Please, trust me. It's hard now for you, but as time goes on you will see that the feelings will subside.

My first wife cheated on me and did all sorts of things... even though all along I had been under the impression that we were made for each other and all that bs. Long story short, she broke my heart and I thought I would never get over her. I did and now I'm much better off for it.

You will make it too. You'll be OK, just give it time.

Thanks to both of u...
Nd I'll try my best to get over it...

M sorry engima cause I made u remind this... extremely sorry

Hi aarzoo
I hear all your words and I understand that you are very emotional like me.
See whatever you hv in your heart is a real feeling and just keep them in your heart but you also hv to accept the reality. So stay away from him.
If you hv any good friends then share your feeling with them this will help u.

Keep yourself always busy by doing something, this makes you feel comfortable and forget him.

"I said that I can't liv without u" - the fact is you can, you just don't want to.

I don't understand how people are so dependent on others for their happiness and mental well being. But that is just me...