Also I can't relax while having sex either,I don't know why,I just can't and my boyfriend comes to quick,but I can't have an orgasm,because I scare myself not having one

Make sure you get YOURS first and make this clear to him..

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Originally Posted by Curlyben

Make sure you get YOURS first and make this clear to him..

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What do you mean? And I'm not really expeirenced,so yea

I must ask, how old are you both ?

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Originally Posted by Curlyben

I must ask, how old are you both ?

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Im 21,and he's 27 and Im not sure if I've ever had an orgasm

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Originally Posted by Bambi21

Im 21,and he's 27 and Im not sure if ive ever had an orgasm

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The majority of women don't have an orgasm during sex, unless they self stimulate during sex.

Do you masturbate? Can you bring yourself to orgasm? If not, then how the heck do you expect him to do something you can't even do?

Every woman is different. You need to figure out what gets you to orgasm, and then teach him so he can do it too.