I've only had sex 3. Times and the first time was wired and I didn't know what to do... Is there any way that they can go back in?

That's the way they are supposed to look.

Its normal for most women. Like snowflakes... no two look alike.

It's all good. The variation in the lip configuration is actually quite startling. There are large inner that hang out, large outer that cover everything, there are lips that are uneven, seemingly discoloured, and even clits that hand out and look exceedingly large.

The important thing to remember is that it is all you and unique to you. Be proud of them. They're all beautiful. As a guy I can tell you that we generally don't care. Doesn't really matter to us. If a guy makes light of it or makes you feel uncomfortable about them than it is his problem and not yours. If a guy makes you feel uncomfortable about the way your lady bits look like than you should probably dump his sorry a$$

There are sites that help with body confidence. Some of them are on Tumblr. They're borderline Pornographic, but will show you the variation in in lady bits. They're all good.

Also.. don't worry... many men find large labia very attractive. Yours by that description sound in the average, medium size range... large will have a lot hanging out. Tiny you might not see at all.

Completely normal, and has nothing to do with having sex. You probably just never had a reason to notice, before.

Think of it this way, if every woman's face is different, then why wouldn't their labia be just as different?

Vagina lips,, yummmm. Trust me, almost every man will simply love what ever your "sexy lady parts" have to offer. Im curious, are you worried about something being wrong? Is it uncomfortable, or just different from what you are used to seeing on your own "person"?