My husband told me ten months ago he chead on me and have a five year ojd kid. We have been married for 27 years we have two grow kids and I'm sick ,he said he told me becauce I could die and not know. I love my husband ask hime to walk away from the kid and save our family and he said he would but he is still see them he. I',m have surgery in a few days and guess where he ?you got to right with them.help

You have no right to ask your husband to walk away from his child. Legally he has to financially support the child. Morally think of the poor child who you are denying a father!

You do not have to have anything to do with the child, but I find it reprehensible that you would deprive this child of a father.

Sorryi didntmean that he won't pay support.yes the poor kid but what about me and my kids

Your children deserve a father just as much as this child does. It's cruel of you to deny a child of one of it's parents.

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Originally Posted by mad777

sorryi didntmean that he wont pay support.yes the poor kid but what about me and my kids

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What about you and your kids? Yes they should come first, but that doesn't mean he can't be a part of this new child's life.

I am sorry about what has happened to you but you can't tell your husband to walk away from the child , that poor child is innocent .What about if he walk away from you and your kid how would that make you and your kid feel ?

Sorry you are experiencing this but your husband has a responsibility to the innocent five year old child. He needs to be in her life to nurture her, to make her feel secure (after all she was conceived by an affair and that is going to be a heavy burden on that child's shoulders when she is aware of the facts), she will need the love and guidance and you sound like a loving and caring person and you seem to be the type of woman, mother, to be a wonderful inspiration to this little girls life. You can do this, your husband made a bad choice that produce a child but you are still in your husbands life and you are stronger than what you think. You can do this mama.