Hi my girlfriend of almost 4 years has moved out we actully broke up for two months until I realized how much I really do love her we have decided to get back together I made many mistakes in the relationship mostly drinking and going out all the time I have stopped drinking and don't eveer plan on it again but even though we are together she does not love me the way I love her its same things that are different she has bought a house but she does not come and stay or visit much although I know she loves me very much all I do is hurt and knowing that we will probably never live together again is killing me and I can not drive so she picks me and my kids up every morring and takes us home and we work at the same place so I really don't know what to do and help would be great

Is there a reason you don't drive? It is very nice of her to drive you around.

Suspend lience

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That can put a big strain on your relationship. You need to put your life back together before attempting to have a relationship with her again.

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That can put a big strain on your relationship. You need to put your life back together before attempting to have a relationship with her again.

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Life is very much put together just depressed because she's not here or in it as much anymore and dontknkow how to deal with it and if we were to split up I would still see her everyday

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Originally Posted by domain

life is very much put together just depressed because shes not here or in it as much anymore and dontknkow how to deal with it and if we was to split up i would still see her everyday

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I'm not sure that your life is so together when you depend on your former girlfriend to drive you and your kids around. Was your license suspended for DWI?