help meeso my boyfriend and I have been dating for awhile now and he won't get near me. We've held hands at munch and deanced a few times. He won't kiss me and I really want him to. We were at a grindfest (its a dance) and we started grinding and he wouldn't really even let me get close to him... help me!!

Grinding is being outlawed by most schools, so this must have been at a private party?

How old are you? And what about him? How long have you been dating (and what does that mean)?

You do realize you are probably several years ahead of him emotionally, right?

Well first grinding is never going to be "outlawed" in high school... And maybe you need to talk about it with him... if you guys are old enough to be grinding then you should be old enough to kiss but maybe he just isn't ready yet... He could just be really nervous about it... You never know unless you talk to him about it :)

How old are you two and how long have you been dating?
Maybe he is a virgin and does not want to or is ready for a physical relationship.

Maybe your want to have physical relations with him is turning him off and by the way it's always good to wait its not all its cracked up to be ! 😒

I think you should give him some time I mean maybe he's not read for it yet or
Just nervous don't be so hard on him some boys need time just take things slow.