I lived at home and my ex went to Purdue an hour away. We were together for 2 years and during that time she cheated on me. I took her back because I really loved her and she said it was a terrible mistake and loved me and could not live without me. I treated her the same was more than a man and a boyfriend then 8 months after cheating when she turned 21. She left me a couple months later.

Will she regret it or has she moved on. She said she still loved me but doesn't know what she wants to do in life. I think she just wants to drink with no consequences. If some girls can comment I would appreciate it.

If she really loved you she never would have cheated, and she never would have left.

Does she regret it? Maybe. Does she regret it enough to come back to you? Doubtful.

You need to move on. She has.

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Me and my girlfriend of two years recently broke up. She cheated on me then I took her back then got dumped eight months later. So I don't even no why I'm still hung up on her. When she dumped me she told me she still loves and will for a long time. I still lover her and gave her two months of space after the break up. Then Christmas day I texted her and broke contact. Just said merry Christmas and that it. Then she said thanks you too I hope your doing well. Then I really messed up I called her and left a voice mail. Just saying that it would be nice to catch up but there was no pressure of calling me back . I don't want to seem desperate and needy, but the truth is I'm not over her. A long story short she never returned the phone call. Should I move on and leave her alone since this was the only contact since the break up. I feel like a dumb for calling and weaker for it. Does anyone think she fully moved on besides me.

I think she has moved on all right and you should let her by leaving her alone. In time you will move on too, and won't feel like a dumb .