I have a boyfriend and I really love him, I did a bad mistake that I didn't mean to do it, and I always tell him the truth and I confess about everything and he do the same I believe. I told him about the mistake and it was before we get together he got mad because I didn't tell him from the first time but he said he will never leave me :'( I apologized, but I fell that he don't love like he was. I don't know what to do, but I really love him and I want to prove for him that I'll never do something like that again, can you help me please to solve the problem and to prove for him that I adore him?

This is silly. How old are you? You have to prove nothing to him. This "mistake" you claim you made is nonsense if it happened before him. If that is the case, not only should he not be holding it against you but it was none of his business to begin with.

I am 15 years old, I don't know but I don't want to loose him, he said he's not mad at me anymore but he's worry what if people start talk about the mistake that I did he have nothing to say because I did the mistake and he doesn't like people talk about me, and sometimes I feel that he doesn't love me anymore

You're insecure. You're still young. Let it go and stop thinking it's such a big deal. If it was before him, it shouldn't matter to either one of you now. If it does matter to him, then you need to find someone else that is a little more mature.

What was the mistake?

I totally agree with very wise Odinn. You have to prove nothing to him. This "mistake" you claim you made is nonsense if it happened before him. If that is the case, not only should he not be holding it against you but it was none of his business to begin with.

Why do women think they have to make all the efforts to please and throw themselves on his mercy when "confessing"? And the exchange of passwords and cell phones, etc. to "show trust." Bullfeathers!! My husband and I have never opened each other's mail or exchanged any passwords -- and we've been married 45 years. THAT is trust and respect.

No it doesn't matter anymore because it just happened, and he doesn't care about it anymore thank you :)

Well, that was quick. And the smiley face is so cute too.

Please don't be one of those silly girls who always worry about pleasing a guy. Many of them are now called Mommy.

Yeah, that was quick... problem solved in less than an hour.

It's the modern day now. You don't have to worry about pleasing him and explaining yourself to him.

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Originally Posted by Irinie

No it doesn't matter anymore because it just happened

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Of course. " I told him about the mistake and it was before we get together"