OK I have known both guys for 6 years. I have been dating one for the 6 years and the other one I can't stop thinking about and he feels the same. What do I do? My current guy wants me to move to london with him and has told me he would never want kids though. The other guy would want kids and lives near me. I don't want kids yet but what happens if I do? Have I chose the right guy? Both guys mean so much to me. Help

How old are you? You have been dating one guy for six years yet constantly thinking about another? You two obviously talk if you know he feels something for you too. How long has this been going on and way are you even considering moving away. Why don't you break up with the current boyfriend and figure out what you want. You're are not being fair to him.

To leave or not to leave-that is your question. You should be exclusive, but you have the right to perchase your happiness. Good luck.

How can they both 'mean so much' to you? You can't stop thinking about the one you have never been intimately involved with, which doesn't say a lot for your feelings for the other, so I would break up with the boyfriend moving to London while you sort out your feelings. It isn't fair to either one of them to be in relationship limbo.