I have been together with my girl for two years. Our relationship does not seem steady at all.One day we are fighting saying we going to leave and the other we are okay. I have been chilling with one of my friends which I now consider my best friend (she's a girl). I talk to her about everything. I feel so different around her I love it.

But yeah I just found out my girl is pregnant but I'm so confused about my feelings. Is it normal to feel better around my friend?

You feel better around your best friend because there is no expectation of the relationship other than a friendship. Those relationships are less threatening and somewhat easier. That is very normal.

However, if you think you had shaky ground before, having a baby on the way can only make it shakier. Some form of birth control would have probably prevented that condition while you two worked on your relationship. Good luck with it.

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Originally Posted by Oliver2011

You feel better around your best friend because there is no expectation of the relationship other than a friendship. Those relationships are less threatening and somewhat easier. That is very normal.

However, if you think you had shaky ground before, having a baby on the way can only make it shakier. Some form of birth control would have probably prevented that condition while you two worked on your relationship. Good luck with it.

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Thank you so much for your feedback I almost thought I was falling for my best friend for a min

I would imagine you are confusing being grateful for having a best friend, and being in love. Especially given the hard time and fear of being a dad you are going through.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I would imagine you are confusing being grateful for having a best friend, and being in love. Especially given the hard time and fear of being a dad you are going thru.

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well I'm not really scared of being a dad it's that I wasn't sure where this relationship was going to end and now there it's more complicated

Baby(?) yes, Girlfriend NO!! Female friend, stay friends!