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  • Nov 16, 2012, 12:31 AM
    soundscrazy
    What is wrong with me?
    Ok, so as some of you know my story of having a male friend. And letting him go cause I was starting to have feelings for him and his children. Well lately my husband and I have been refinding each other. Which I think is great. But just last night I went out with a cousin, we had a few drinks and came home. Well when I got home the first thing I did was went into bed with my husband. Of course it was the best sex ever I thought in a long time. But the hole time I was thinking about my male friend. What does that mean? Afterwards I felt so dirty. What is wrong with me? Why can't I stop thinking about him? Even though my husband has never been the greatest to me. At least today I can say he is finally trying. I hate this feeling It makes me feel like Im cheating. Any advice for my bad behavior?
  • Nov 16, 2012, 12:48 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    It means you are thinking about him, while having sex. Think of Tom Cruise or "Rocky" or anyone you want. Many people have a fantasy life or dream of others while having sex at times.

    I have had a few of Janet Jackson in my younger days.
  • Nov 17, 2012, 12:43 AM
    soundscrazy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    It means you are thinking about him, while having sex. Think of Tom Cruise or "Rocky" or anyone you want. Many people have a fantasy life or dream of others while having sex at times.

    I have had a few of Janet Jackson in my younger days.

    Ok, so your saying this is normal? Man I have a lot to learn in life.
  • Nov 17, 2012, 01:22 PM
    talaniman
    No need to feel guilty, as you have done nothing wrong. Fantasies are okay, as long as they stay in fantasy land.

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