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The condom broke, but he did not . HELP!

I'm 15 & me & my boyfriend of 2 years had sex this was only our second time having sex. We had sex the day before thanksgiving last year& we did it again last Friday. While we were having sex he had on a condom, but we herd a pop noise & he was like " what was that?" And pulled out& it was broke, then he put washed his hands and put them in me like I guess to get stuff out... About 13 minutes after it broke I pee'd we only had sex for around 6 minutes. I am sooo scared, can someone plead help me. What are the chances I'm pregnant? I'm only a sophomore.. Please help!

The risk is high. You are doing adult activities and may have to behave like an adult in about nine months. Now you wait to see if you miss your next period. Stay in touch and we will go through this with you.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

The risk is high. You are doing adult activities and may have to behave like an adult in about nine months. Now you wait to see if you miss your next period. Stay in touch and we will go through this with you.

Did it happen to you?

Any time you have sex, even with protection, and even if the protection is used correctly, pregnancy is possible. There are women on this site, and all over the world, that got pregnant using three different forms of birth control, all used correctly. It happens.

Here are a few facts. He didn't have to ejaculate in order for you to get pregnant. There's more than enough sperm in pre-ejaculate to get the job done.

In other words, there is a possibility of pregnancy. You'll have to wait until your next period is due. If you miss it then wait a week, two is better, and take a pregnancy test using first morning urine.

Bottom line, if you're not ready to be a mother, you're not ready to have sex, there is not form of birth control that can protect you 100%.

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Did it happen to you?

No. I didn't have sex until my wedding night, but I know the facts of life and how babies are made, have had two of them.

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No. I didn't have sex until my wedding night, but I know the facts of life and how babies are made, have had two of them.

But before we had sex I gave my boyfriend head, but he didn't , then he put the condom on& then everything else happened. He t

The condom broke, but he did not .

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I had se with my boyfriend on Friday, he ha a condom on and I am not on birth control, about 6 minutes in, we hear a piping sound and he pulls out and the condom like JUST broke. I don't know if I'm pregnant & I did not take the morning aftr pill. I have heard that its very rare to get pregnant from this, but I have also herd it's very likely to get pregnant from this. If there are any doctors on hear, PLEASE COMMENT!

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But before we had sex I gave my boyfriend head, but he didn't , then he put the condom on& then everything eles happened. He t

Okay, let's go about this a different way.

Do you know how pregnancy happens? Do you know what pre-ejaculate is? Do you know how many sperm it takes to get pregnant? Do you know how much sperm is in pre? Do you know that condoms are one of the least reliable forms of birth control?

The condom you used broke. It doesn't matter if you gave him head before you had sex. I doesn't matter that he put his fingers inside to try and scoop out his sperm. It doesn't matter that you peed afterwards. The fact is, the condom broke, so you had unprotected sex. That means that there is a chance of pregnancy. Hate to scare you, but even if the condom hadn't broken there would still be a chance of pregnancy. Any time you have sex there's a chance of pregnancy.

So, are you pregnant? We can't tell you. Is it possible? Yes it is.

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I had se with my boyfriend on Friday, he ha a condom on and I am not on birth control, about 6 mins in, we hear a piping sound and he pulls out and the condom like JUST broke. I don't know if I'm pregnant & I did not take the morning aftr pill. I have heard that its very rare to get preg from this, but I have also herd it's very likly to get preg from this. If there are any doctors on hear, PLEASE COMMENT!

Posting your question over and over again won't help.

We already told you that there's a possibility that you're pregnant.

No doctor can tell you if you are or aren't pregnant, online. You'll have to do what every other female on the face of this earth has done when she fears she's pregnant, and that's wait, pray for a period, and if you don't get it, test for pregnancy. That's the only option.

Not one person can tell you that you're definitely not pregnant, because there is a possibility.

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Posting your question over and over again won't help.

We already told you that there's a possiblity that you're pregnant.

No doctor can tell you if you are or aren't pregnant, online. You'll have to do what every other female on the face of this earth has done when she fears she's pregnant, and that's wait, pray for a period, and if you don't get it, test for pregnancy. That's the only option.

Not one person can tell you that you're definitely not pregnant, because there is a possibility.

Is the possibility extreamly high though? And when do I take a pregancy test?

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Is the possibility extreamly high tho? And when do I take a pregancy test?

There's no such thing as a high or low possibility of pregnancy. If sperm meets egg, egg attaches to uterine wall, then pregnancy happens. All it takes is one sperm, one mistake, and bam.

Your chances are as good as anyone else that's sexually active, especially since you essentially had unprotected sex. I'm sorry if that scares you, but trust me, I could tell you stories that would scare you a lot worse than what I'm actually telling you. You need to hear this so that you know the facts. Any time you have sex, even if you're on the pill (using it correctly), use a condom (and it doesn't break), and use another form of birth control, you can still get pregnant.

If your period is fairly regular, then wait until your next period is due. If you miss it then wait another week, two is better, and then try a pregnancy test using first morning urine (that part is important). If the test is negative you're not in the clear yet. Many women don't get an accurate reading until well into their first trimester (the first 3 months of pregnancy). So, if the test is negative wait until your next period is due. If you miss it then test again, or go to a doctor for a blood test.

If you get your period, I want you to do me a favor. Remember how you're feeling right now, how scared you are, and realize that you dodged a bullet. Don't put yourself into the line of gun fire again until you're ready to be mom. Deal?

If you are pregnant, come back and we'll help you get through it. You do have options if you are pregnant, and we're here to help you with those options. It's not always the end of the world. Okay?

Right now the only thing you can do is wait, pray, and test if it's necessary. Worrying about it now won't change anything.

I can only wish you good luck. Believe it or not, even though I'm now a married mother of two, one of them only a year younger than you, I've been were you are now, and it wasn't fun. I know that you're scared to death. But being scared won't change a darn thing. Learning from this will, and facing things if it turns out you are pregnant, is another thing. We can help with that, and I'm more than willing to be here if it turns out you didn't dodge the bullet.

I fully understand the issues also, but there is a chance, there is just no way to know or tell till you have ( or don't have) a period.