I am a 21 year old female working full time with acollege degree. About a year ago I was in a relationship with a man about 10 years older than I. We ended it about a month in because we were busy with work and is grandmother became ill. We just didn't have the fime to put into our relationship.

I moved on and met my fiancé who I live with currently. Up until a few weeks ago everything seemed great.. but thenI found out he was keeping tabs on me and he lost his jov. I pay all of the bills and am starting to see some major differences in out outlooks on life. It has become stressfyll so I turned to my old friend which just so happens to be my ez for advice.

The more we talk the more I see my life with him. These men are total opposites but my friend and I have what seems to be way more in common with him than my fiancé.

I love them both and can see myself with both of them but I am not sure what to do...