About 3 weeks ago my boyfriend and I played in bed, we thought we were safe if he didn't go all the way in... but now I having second thoughts. I don't know if I'm pregnant or not and I'm afraid to tell my parents. I starting to feel nausous all the time, my temperature around my waist area is warmer than usual, having aching pains in my adomen, always tired now even if I get 8 hours of sleep like I should, and I'm starting to have headaches now. I don't know if it sounds like I'm pregnant or not

Did he go in at all? Have you missed a period?

You may be pregnant, but you wouldn't have symptoms this early. When is your period due?

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You may be pregnant, but you wouldn't have symptoms this early. When is your period due?

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My period is due in week or around that time

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Did he go in at all? Have you missed a period?

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He didn't go in at all. But my mom says he doesn't have to go in to get you pregnant. He can be near it and still get you pregnant

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he didnt go in at all. but my mom says he doesnt have to go in to get you pregnant. he can be near it and still get you pregnant

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She's right. Respond to teacherjenn, please. ***ADDED I see you did. Now you wait.

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my period is due in week or around that time

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Your period is due in a week or so. If your period is more than 10 days late, then take a pregnancy test with your first morning urine. How old are you two?

I'm sorry... reword that. I'm exhausted, my brain isn't... it dull right now. I can't process well...

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i'm sorry... reword that. i'm exhausted, my brain isnt.... it dull right now. i can't process well...

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Reword what?

Never mind I got it... takes a little longer. I tired and hunger. Have only eaten crackers and 7 up. I'm going to be 18 in a couple of months

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never mind i got it... takes a little longer. i tired and hunger. have only eaten crackers and 7 up. i'm gonna be 18 in a couple of months

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You should see a doctor for your symptoms. Also, if you are having sex and do not want to become pregnant, speak to your doctor about birth control. But remember, no birth control is 100% effective.

Actually I had to stop birth control because my cycle was completely of and I was having MAJOR mood swings to the point I started hitting and breaking things. HOPEFULLY I can go to the doctor in about a week or so... but I don't know because my mom is going thro breast cancer. And we don't have much money. And I know they don't guarantee 100%

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actually i had to stop birth control because my cycle was completely of and i was having MAJOR mood swings to the point i started hitting and breaking things. HOPEFULLY i can go to the doctor in about a week or so... but i dont know because my mom is going thro breast cancer. and we dont have much money. and i know they dont guarantee 100%

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I hope it's just the flu, and I also hope your Mom gets well very soon. Be careful and don't give her anything else to worry about.

Is there a Planned Parenthood clinic near you?

I'm trying not to. That why I trying to find people that can help me and give me advice with out her finding out. Problem is I not ready neither is my boyfriend. His family loves me and so does this friend (acts like a father to him because his real one ran out on him and his mother when he was little) he is going to talk to us... maybe help us also with the doctors appointments

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i'm trying not to. that why i trying to find people that can help me and give me advice with out her finding out. problem is i not ready neither is my boyfriend. his family loves me and so does this friend (acts like a father to him because his real one ran out on him and his mother when he was little) he is going to talk to us... maybe help us also with the doctors appointments

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If you two aren't ready to become parents, then you need to get educated about sex and pregnancy. As Wondergirl suggested, find a Planned Parenthood in your area. Are you still in school?

Yeah I am. I'm in 11th grade. It was his birthday... and I tried making him happy. I a person that tries to make people happy even if it harms myself... stupid... but it's me

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yeah i am. i'm in 11th grade. it was his birthday... and i tried making him happy. i a person that tries to make people happy even if it harms myself..... stupid.... but it's me

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Time to make a few personality changes, especially if you dodge the bullet in this case and aren't pregnant.

Girls don't exist to make guys happy. It doesn't work that way.

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yeah i am. i'm in 11th grade. it was his birthday... and i tried making him happy. i a person that tries to make people happy even if it harms myself..... stupid.... but it's me

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Talk to your school nurse, and she may be able to direct you to a clinic in your area. Always protect your body. It's the only one you have. Don't let anyone talk you into something you don't want to do.

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I tried making him happy. I a person that tries to make people happy even if it harms myself

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This is so very sad. If you are pregnant, at your ages, he won't stick around for long. I can promise you that.

This is the only body you will ever have. You need to cherish and respect it.

In a relationship both of you need to be happy for it to work.