Av been with my boyfriend for almost 4years and those 4years has been tearfull,quarellsome and stressfull.he takes care of me financially but he doesn't listen to me I don't have a say because not a day goes by without me appologising up to 5times a day cause he's always complaining.the reason why am still with him is his mum,she's like an angle,she's always advising and comforting me.he gets angry at everything that concerns me.he always wants things to go his way without me complaining,and if complain he gets so paranoid and he starts shaking.I havealways been in love with him but he has never been in love with me,he likes noyhing about except what he sees on other girls.anytime we go out2have fun it endup badly,if he's not telling me2walk,talk,dress,dance,stand etc like someone he sawnhe ll complaining about my mood.he hardly calls me he doesn't text me.he's not romantic or affectionate.am really getting tired.pls what do I do.

I see no earthly reason to stay with him. Do you?

I love him so much.since we've together and we have a missunderstanding he has never reached out2me instead he gets angry and doesn't talk to me.no matter how tiny the thing is he complains as if its have done something terrible wrong.I care about him so much but am starting to lose it.I always try and settle so I don't have to start looking for another guy cause his my 3rd. Boyfriend.am not feeling the relationship any more.he doesn't want me2 complain and if. I do it ends up badly its either am crying or he's frustrated.

You don't love yourself very much.

He sounds like trash. Why would you accept being treated like this and how could that lead to you "love him so much"? He treats you terribly and does nothing for you. I'm sure you could do so much better if you could just bring yourself to get rid of him.