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  • Nov 11, 2012, 01:11 AM
    stringssing
    How to support her while waiting for the test results.
    Well, great news, could be a Daddy. Im 25 and make a good living, unfortunately, I make horrible decisions. This gal has a BOYFRIEND! She loves him, we got together while they were separated, twice, and yesterday she tells me its 50/50, baby could be mine. I understand the stress she's going through, or can imagine the amount. I think we both understand I will offer as much support financially, but how can I help her emotionally or physically? As a potential babies mamma, NOT as a couple. Im guessing she's 5weeks in. Today, she won't talk.
  • Nov 11, 2012, 01:56 AM
    Curlyben
    Sorry to sound harsh, but have you SEEN the pregnancy results?
  • Nov 11, 2012, 07:46 AM
    stringssing
    No sir, you could be right. I think she telling the truth though.
  • Nov 11, 2012, 08:13 AM
    Homegirl 50
    She has a boyfriend. I think you need to leave her alone. When the baby is born you can have a paternity test to find out if it is yours.
    She cheated on her boyfriend with you, how do you know she is honest enough not to lie about a pregnancy? You need to stay away from her.
  • Nov 11, 2012, 08:19 AM
    stringssing
    Homegirl, she was separated from her boyfriend. She wants to get a prenatal paternity test. But you think I should just leave her alone?
  • Nov 11, 2012, 08:30 AM
    Homegirl 50
    You can buy a pregnancy test at the drug store for very little money. Why is she broke up with her boy friend? Does she have a job? How do you know she is not running to you for the money? This whole thing sounds pretty stinky to me. There is no such thing as a prenatal pregnancy test.
  • Nov 11, 2012, 10:42 AM
    Homegirl 50
    You can be her friend and be emotional support to her, but I would not put out any money until you know the baby is yours. In fact I would ask for definitive proof that she is even pregnant

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