Okay here it goes...
I have been dating my boyfriends for two years now, we didn't have sex till right around our one year, cute right? Ehh..
We had sex only a few times now otherwise we just "fool around"... I've asked him why or if there's something wrong with me and he says no. I hate the feeling though. It only bugs me because this ex girlfriend he was with for like a year had sex all the time. Ty feeling right?. advice please!

How do you know about his sex life with his ex?
Sex is not everything but it is important. Why after waiting a year are you only a few times? Maybe you are not sexually compatible. That would brother me. How old are you guys?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

How do you know about his sex life with his ex?
Sex is not everything but it is important. Why after waiting a year are you only a few times? Maybe you are not sexually compatible. That would brother me. How old are you guys?

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His ex girl friend and I are friends... and we all have the same group of friends but my boyfriend and I kind of back away from all them. And I know its not everything I'm still with him and I love him I was just confused I guess, and I have no idea why just a few times. We don't really talk about it... makes me feel stupid I guess to think about it, and were 20 and 21

Well you need to talk about it. If you have sex you ought to be able to talk about it.