This is a kind of a long question but I need your advice. So basically in gym I saw this girl who had a short haircut in the shape of a mohawk wearing boys close. So I asked my friend if the girl was a lesbian. So she hears me and yells at me and says how she's not a lesbian and that she cut her hair to donate to cancer and that she did it for her grandma. Ouch! Right? So she goes and tells her friends what I say because by now she's sooo offended and they tell me how it was wrong and basically saying that I'm offending gay people and I'm just standing there like "Wow I asked a simple question, she dresses and acts like a guy, what do you want me to say?" Here's the good part, little do they know I actually have a small girl crush on their other friend who wasn't in gym at the time. I wasn't going to tell them that cause it's none of their business to know but I soon regretted it because they told her what I said. Now my crush is mad at me and thinks that I'm a butthole but basically my question is how do I apologize and let her know that I didn't mean to offend anybody? Also the girls that told me off took my words and blew them out of proportion so now it sounds worse than it actually is. I hope you can understand this, I was trying to get it all down.
