It was easy to accommodate my former husband whose girth was 6 inches and length was about 7 inches.
In fact it could have been a larger girth as it was never painful.
Now the man I am considering marrying has said he is large. Upon enquiry his girth is 8.5 inches and his length is about the same. I am of average height. 5.ft 6 inches. Please I am asking for professional advice.

How big is a baby? He's not anywhere as big as that... like fishermen.. most guys lie about how big a fish they caught.

As a gay guy I would have to tell him HELLLLLL NOOOOOOOOOO.

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As a gay guy I would have to tell him HELLLLLL NOOOOOOOOOO.

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With all due respect, I don't he is trying to put it in her pooper. At least all the time.

I am a little skeptical about the 8inch girth, but we can go with it. You can fit it, you'll stretch. As Smoothy said you're design to have a baby's head go the other way. I think any penis will be smaller than that.

Hi Smoothy,
Thanks for your answer.
All the same, I don´t think the comparison can be made.
The body is prepared hormonally for over 9 months before birth. The period of labour and dilation of the vagina and cervix to be open wide enough to give birth usually takes many hours, even up to 48 hours or more before the body is ready.
With intercourse, I realize that hormones come into action in preparing the body, but in all seriousness, I would appreciate a factual answer from someone qualified, with medical advice, (other than "use plenty of lube" etc.).

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With all due respect, I don't he is trying to put it in her pooper. At least all the time.

I am a little skeptical about the 8inch girth, but we can go with it. You can fit it, you'll stretch. As Smoothy said you're design to have a baby's head go the other way. I think any penis will be smaller than that.

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Hi CravenMorhead,
Thanks for your answer!
Have you any idea how long it will take until all stretching has been accomplished, for things to feel comfortable?

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As a gay guy I would have to tell him HELLLLLL NOOOOOOOOOO.

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Oliver, are you trying to scare me or something or are you trying to tell me it is too big? - Please, this is someone I am planning to be with forever. I hope you understand!

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Oliver, are you trying to scare me or something or are you trying to tell me it is too big? - Please, this is someone I am planning to be with forever. I hope you understand!

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Oliver is a fearmonger. The orifice he is thinking about isn't a vagina.

Like smoothy said, your vagina can stretch to accommodate the delivery of an 8+ pound baby. You'll be fine. Just relax, go slow, and allow your muscles to be flexible. Or you can tense up and fight it, like women in labor might do, and cause yourself some pain. I too am wondering about his measurements (does he measure himself just before an orgasm?).

Hello She:

If it's going to stretch, it'll stretch when you're stimulated. If I were you, though, I'd DO him, then you'll know.

I expect a full report.

excon

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Oliver is a fearmonger. The orifice he is thinking about isn't a vagina.

Like smoothy said, your vagina can stretch to accommodate the delivery of an 8+ pound baby. You'll be fine. Just relax, go slow, and allow your muscles to be flexible. Or you can tense up and fight it, like women in labor might do, and cause yourself some pain. I too am wondering about his measurements (does he measure himself just before an orgasm?).

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Thanks for your reply Wondergirl !
His measurements are when he is not fully aroused!
I hope you took my reply to Smoothy into consideration before replying.
My question to you is: "Have you had first-hand experience, or read reports, or spoken with others who have mentioned their own experience on this?"

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Hello She:

If it's gonna stretch, it'll stretch when you're stimulated. If I were you, though, I'd go ahead and DO him, then you'll know.

I expect a full report.

excon

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Hi Excon,
Thanks for your feedback!
I am waiting for marriage dear.

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His measurements are when he is not fully aroused!
I hope you took my reply to Smoothy into consideration before replying.
My question to you is: "Have you had first-hand experience, or read reports, or spoken with others who have mentioned their own experience on this?"

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Why is anyone even measuring him?? Is there a locker-room competition going on?

I've had two babies. You will be fine.

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Why is anyone even measuring him???? Is there a locker-room competition going on?

I've had two babies. You will be fine.

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My dear, thanks for your reply.
You are so funny! - LOL! When he stated he was really large, then I wanted to put my mind at rest to know if I could accommodate him, so he kindly measured himself.

Hello again, She:

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My compliments. Most people don't do that these days.

Look. I don't really know much about these things. I understand that it only hurts when his penis hits your cervix. I think you've got a couple inches to spare. I wouldn't worry at all about the girth.

Excon

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You are so funny! - LOL !! When he stated he was really large, then I wanted to put my mind at rest to know if I could accomodate him, so he kindly measured himself.

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What a trooper he is!! Of course, he did this when no one was around.

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Hello again, She:

My compliments. Most people don't do that these days.

Look. I don't really know much about these things. I understand that it only hurts when his penis hits your cervix. I think you've got a couple inches to spare. I wouldn't worry at all about the girth.

excon

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Thanks for being so reassuring!
I appreciate that.

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What a trooper he is!!! Of course, he did this when no one was around.

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LOL! You are a comic! Should I send a male cousin over to go and verify?

I'm reminded of the saying "Why do women have such bad depth perception? Because all their lives they've been told that 2 inches is actually 10".

Even if he is as big as he says, you'll stretch to accommodate, and I have had experience with well endowed men. In fact, my first time was with someone that was not small by any means.

You'll be fine.

Like excon said, the length might be the problem if he smashes up against your cervix. Girth should be no problem at all, as much as you or he might want to think it is.

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Like excon said, the length might be the problem if he smashes up against your cervix. Girth should be no problem at all, as much as you or he might want to think it is.

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Thanks Wondergirl!
I have read up on something which is do-nut shaped, (like a rubber ring) to act as a cushioning bumper and to take the edge off the length!