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  • Nov 8, 2012, 07:02 AM
    Carly1994
    Me and my best friend kissed and I have a boyfriend
    Right me and my best friend have known each other for 6 years we were always a flirty friendship so I never thought anything else about it and I thought she wasn't gay or that cause she's had so many girls after her and she always turned them down and I thought I had feeling for my best friend but I just thought that was nothing but on Tuesday there we went to the pubs and had a couple of drinks great time not drunk or anything for we started walking up the road and we walk each other half way so we cuddle for a bit but this time for different cause she kiss me I thought nothing of it till it happened a couple of time last one lasting longer so we started to get off with each others my hands wouldn't stop going wondering then I stop cause I thought maybe its cause she's had a drink I ask her but she just started to kiss me again and we were late getting home so we had to leave it without talking about it so we met up last night(Wednesday) to talk about it so I was getting ready to talk about it but she just went want to play pool so we went to play pool and it wasn't till we were at the same place as last night I just went in for it I guess but am feeling so bad cause I have got a boyfriend but I want to know what this is with my friend so how can I ask her without us about kissing?
  • Nov 8, 2012, 08:03 AM
    Homegirl 50
    You ask her. You don't have to kiss her to do that. Have the conversation while you are sober. That would help. If your are sexually curious about her, you need to break up with your boyfriend. Cheating is tacky.
  • Nov 8, 2012, 09:27 AM
    Carly1994
    But every time I ask her something she try's to kiss me and am going to tell him tonight just needed someone to say this too and does that mean I like her in a gay way or I just like kissing her?
  • Nov 8, 2012, 09:29 AM
    Carly1994
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You ask her. You don't have to kiss her to do that. Have the conversation while you are sober. That would help. If your are sexually curious about her, you need to break up with your boyfriend. Cheating is tacky.
    But every time I ask her something she try's to kiss me and am going to tell him tonight just needed someone to say this too and does that mean I like her in a gay way or I just like kissing her?
  • Nov 8, 2012, 09:40 AM
    Homegirl 50
    You tell her to stop. Don't let her control things, or you stay away from her, sounds kind of controlling to me?
    How long have you dated your boyfriend? Are you willing to give up your relationship over this girl who won't even let you talk? How old are you and how old is she?
  • Nov 8, 2012, 09:41 AM
    Homegirl 50
    I think you are curious, nothing more. How long have you dated your boyfriend?
  • Nov 8, 2012, 10:42 AM
    Carly1994
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You tell her to stop. Don't let her control things, or you stay away from her, sounds kind of controlling to me?
    How long have you dated your boyfriend? Are you willing to give up your relationship over this girl who won't even let you talk? How old are you and how old is she?
    I am 17 so is she and it hasn't been that long about 3 months and all we do is argue and am not a drama person really that's why am just better off finding out what I want and see from there
  • Nov 8, 2012, 12:00 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Why does it have to be with her? If all you guys do is argue what is all the kissing about?
    Leave the girl alone. This sounds like a controlling mess.
  • Nov 8, 2012, 12:16 PM
    Carly1994
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Why does it have to be with her? If all you guys do is argue what is all the kissing about?
    Leave the girl alone. This sounds like a controlling mess.
    I mean me and my boyfriend do and me and her have never had an argument in all the time I have known her
  • Nov 8, 2012, 01:13 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Break up with him then. No point in being with someone you argue with all the time. Have a talk with her but I would not get envolved in a relationship right away.
    Stay free for a while
  • Nov 8, 2012, 03:00 PM
    Carly1994
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Break up with him then. No point in being with someone you argue with all the time. Have a talk with her but I would not get envolved in a relationship right away.
    Stay free for a while
    Thank y
  • Nov 8, 2012, 03:01 PM
    Carly1994
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Break up with him then. No point in being with someone you argue with all the time. Have a talk with her but I would not get envolved in a relationship right away.
    Stay free for a while
    Thank you so much for everything, but one more thing home can I finish with him if he has a lot of things going on?
  • Nov 8, 2012, 03:02 PM
    Carly1994
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Carly1994 View Post
    Thank you so much for everything, but one more thing home can I finish with him if he has a lot of things going on?
    How I mean not home lol
  • Nov 8, 2012, 10:52 PM
    Homegirl 50
    If you don't want to be with him leave him. Yo don't stay with someone just because they have things going on.

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