My son is getting married and his fiancé just informed me that she wants her mother and myself to wear either an off chapagne or red mother in law suit. First of all, I have red hair and fair skin so neither of these colors will look good on me. In fact, they make me look awful. Secondly, I was going to wear a dress and not one of those mother in law suits. Is it the fiance's choice as to what I should wear? I am not comfortable wearing either.