I really like this girl a year ago she liked me but I had a girlfriend but I still kissed her... And now.. A year later I like her and her ex broke up with her 3 weeks ago I told her that I regret not leaving my ex last year to be with her. I also told her that I still liked her and how I felt. She told me that it's nice she likes me to but she still misses her ex and she didn't want to bring my hopes up. I know that she likes me. I am doing my best to help her through her situation but it's hard I told her that he's a fool for leaving her for another girl that she's too good for that but I don't know what else to do and I want to help her. And I really like her!

Don't fall into the doormat place :) we all want to be there the people we love but sometimes we are there at the wrong time and do the wrong things which damages us later on.. my advice is leave her alone for a bit..

Maybe say well he is a moron for leaving you babe.. and then just give her space to get over him.. don't help her out.. she told you that she didn't wanan get your hopes up which is a very nice thing to say. She probable likes you man :) but its to soon give her space make her want you.. and find out what you truly want as well.. sounds like you guys got a good chance but my advice is to step back a bit and see what happens don't get to wound up in it

Hope it all works out man

No more helping. Love sick puppy. You need to stop licking at her feet. I am series. You need to stay away from her. She does not know what she wants and your just going to get used.

Joe

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Originally Posted by mj23Jordan

I know that she likes me.

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That is an interesting sentence.

Because the very sentene you wrote BEFORE that one was in complete disagreement with the quote above. Let's check it out...

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Originally Posted by mj23Jordan

She told me that it's nice she likes me to but she still misses her ex and she didn't want to bring my hopes up.

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So there you have it. She's not over her ex, she still likes her ex, and she doesn't want to get your hopes up. In that one sentence I see three reasons that she doesn't like you.

I think your so wrapped up into her you can't see the big picture.

Tell her that she has to work out her problems herself and if she's interested give you a call in 6 months when she's over him. Then leave it at that. If she calls, she is interested in exploring something with you. If she doesn't you know for sure.

Don't waste time on someone who has told you that you have no chance. Move on she doesn't need or want your help.