I have been in a relationship before, but that was 5years ago, now that I'm a university student I should be going out, talking to girls making friends and girl friends. Its going great but when it comes to relationships, that's when it gets confusing, I feel like I had given up on love all together, I never talk to girls in a flirtatious matter but rather keep things to the point and not charming, I feel like I don't need love at all now and I think there's something totally wrong with that, but I do get lonely, that's why its all more confusing

You need self-confidence and courage. My friend, Come On.

Maybe you have not met the girl you'd really like to flirt with. If things are going good otherwise, don't sweat it.

It isn't really a crisis yet is it? You just need to meet that special one. But this is the time of your life where you should be going out, meeting new people, and having fun. Pretty soon you will meet many and have to choose. Trust me - that is the time to hit the crisis button.