I have a friend an I really like her a lot we have been through a lot as friend together an I have seen her good side an her sad side but how do really find out if she likes me more than a friend without just asking her an taken a chance on our friendship

Well find out how she acts with u if she isn't shy she will be slightly flirty or even straight out flirty If she talks to u about other guys when u don't talk about other girls she most likely friend zoned u BUT if u talk about girls and then she talks about guys she is trying to make u jealius. Look for the clues! Also try and win her iver. Flowers compliments goodmorning texts. Girls LOVE that stuff (:

It all depends on her confidence and how she sees her self. If she thinks she's the best looking person in the world (stuck up, egotistical etc) then the approach would be to keep cool and try to impress her (trust me none of that be yourself crap actually works) and try to prove you are worth something to her(not really the best choice for a relationship). If she's a regular, polite, quiet person that doesn't get in peoples face's about herself and is respectful to everyone else, then you have found something worth fighting for. Being yourself in this case will work to your benefit as she will see that you are a nice person to be around and that she knows she can trust you. How ever this does mean that you will have to be pacient with her as she may not want to rush through the relationship. Another way you could possibly ruin the relationship is if you start being big headed and egotistical your self; if you start bragging about your relationship it may make her uncomfortable to be around you and that you may destroy her trust in you and furthermore the relationship. Basically act like they do because it is how they want you to act for them. I hope this is helpful to you as she is clearly worth something to you. :)