I broke up with my partner a few days ago,after 8 year relationship,I love her,but I'm tire of drama,she always offending me because she very insecure about her self, I got mad because I was planing something nice for her birthday,travel to see her and all that,booked my flight and she knew, but I call her and I felt she sounded weird I n I ask her and I felt something wasn't right,I think she was lieying about something... she got very defense with me, only because I ask her why she sound weird,I felt something wasn't right, she got very defense and make a big deal about nothing really... so I decide to ended,I feel that for whatever reason she not being honest to me,, so today is her birthday and I'm not sure if I should send her a message,or call her? I love her,but she make everything so dificut,I know she love me too,, I just don't know what to do anymore,ours problem is not about not loving each other, she think she perfect,far from, I just tire,. I know I'm not perfect but as least I know it and acept when I'm wrong, but she not... so please can anybody help me?what should I do?

No. Do not send a birthday greeting.

Why not?

Nope. Why reopen the door? It's closed.