My mother absolutely hates me.she yelles and screames at me all the time .she gives me to many choirs.feed the dog,do the dishes,clean your room , vacume ,sweep ,mop.if I don't do them In the time limite she gives me.a.k.a 3hours the she pattles me and takes away any fun activities.like today I can have a birthbay party because I did not do the dishes.she does not drink either.what can I do to make her happy.I have a little sister that she loves more than me.I have been waken up in the middle of the night having to listen to her and her boyfriend have se* when my sister and I were In the camper trailer with then.what to do