My girlfriend is currently married to a man so she can stay in the united states without having to go back to russia.. she tells me they are not together or like each other anymore... But when I read her messages on her phone he asks her things like will you stick your hands in my pants if its cold here and I miss your butt, I'm horny I have a boner, and she always replies with a "yes" or saying something silly back never saying no to him.. She works as a stripper and that's where they met, its also where we met. I have found other things in her phone like sending emails to guys telling them "thanks for the dances". She's going to visit him for the second time in 5 months we have been together. "but nothing will happen". Should I leave this girl?

She says they talk that way because there like family and she will never leave him from her life... But she has also done amazing things for me that nobody else has or will ever do... Took me on vacation for a week and does everything for me... Why does she talk this way to him and talk to guys that a customers at her work? Also should I dump her

Are you serious, leave her? You don't have her, she is married and no doubt playing with you as she does the other guys.

Dude your dancing with the devil here I recommend leaving her.

Leave or not leave, that's your question. Think it over!

You seem to be just a toy for her.