Recently, I met a guy online and his pictures are nice too. My friend has met him in real life and has known him for a few years... But I haven't. He claims he cares for me and we are always texting and calling each other. I am.starting to become emotionally attached to him. I love talking to him an we do talk dirty time to time. He wants to gain my trust an he really doesn't mind having a long distance relationship... But there are days were he will call an text me a lot an others were he doesn't call or text at all! I get so frustrated... Im sooo attached now that it hurts. I've fallen hard for his peraonality an its killing me :/ what do I do? Hes clearly interested. But I've also heard rumours that he's a player but he wants to giv it time with me... He said the wait will be worth it with you an he really likes me... Says he's all mine... After all that I don't hear from him... what the hell? Is he just messing with me ?

You can actually stop posting the same question.

He is playing games with you. Otherwise how could he commit to you if he doesn't know you. Are you that needy ?

I went through something very similair to this and I know where you are coming from... If people tell you he is a player it is because he is... I have never met anybody that has lied about that... And also without never meeting him you never really know his real personality and you make up the perfect guy in your head and then it hurts even more when he dissipoints you... And without meeting you and not seeing you in person he could "cheat" on you and not even feel bad because he doesn't see you and person to see how bad it really hurts you. You are going to have to be really smart about this... When I went through this he was just using me and I hope this guy isn't using you but it is possible... I hope everything works out