My mom bleached my hair out because it had been covered over and over with med brown to dark brown since I have 100 percent grey. It turned light red, and I bought a kit to highlight my hair, loreal med brown, it also turned a darker red highlights. If I put strands of light brown will this tone it down? I have always wanted med bronze could I use that? I am 49 and I need to lighten my hair. My haircoler was drk brown when I was young. What can I do? Also my eye color is brown and I am not real light complected. I just don't know what to do about it , Thank you, Karen