Together two yrs,doesn't initiate sex, doesn't give me any sexy comments, we get on great and he tells me that he really does love and care for me, I'm so confussd, please help..

Has stuff just became repetitive?
Have you tried to do diff stuff, maybe hair cut, new hair color... spicy up your dressing. Maybe a romantic dinner?
Or maybe he is just tired from work... we have all been there

How old are you both? You are in the middle of the period the new meat excitement wears off...