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I admit I don't really need a bra but I'm tired of boys laughing at me because my fat nipplels poking out of my shirt . And no matter how many times I ask mom sh just says in time .And when she does buy me a bra it's a skinny flimsy one that barley fits and when I ask her to measure me she says she'll take me out to get measured but she never does.. HELP
I'm sorry that you're going through that sweetie. I grew up in a family of 5, with 2 other sisters and 2 brothers. When I started growing, my mother still treated me as if I was still a child. She never told me about the changes I was experiencing. I'm not a mum yet, so I don't know what's the perspective of mothers on this issue, but from my point of view, I think your mum still sees you as a child, and thinks that having a bra isn't that important, which trust me I think it is very important. I had to beg my mother to buy me a bra, and she used to say that it wasn't that important. I hated how my breasts looked under my clothes, as they were unsupported and juggled and everything. It made me feel very insecure. My mother had a change of heart though, and one day she decided to take me shopping for my first pair. Is there anybody that can take you shopping? Is there any store near you?
Try emailing her. Then ask her on the text or email of your problem that you have. Once you write it you'll feel great you did!!
If your nipples/buds are poking out then you DO need a bra and you need to show this to your mother and explain that you are being teased about it.
On the other hand, if you are poking out, then maybe you need to think more about how you dress. Are you wearing clothing that is too light and too tight? Can you wear more layers to hide them more without a bra?
Well actually I wear a tank top under most things I wear. I'm worried maybe that's the reason she hasn't noticed I developed a little yet.Quote:
Originally Posted by ScottGem
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