My boyfriend has this major stalker who is completely creeping me out now! Sending me abuse and telling me she has slept with him then messaging him begging for sex asking why he hasn't given into her yet. She's saying stuff like she physically hates me for not stepping aside and letting her sleep with him, even telling him to ditch me because she thinks he'll be happier with her and she's growing resentful towards him because he's refusing her. We've tried everything, even blocking her on all network sites, but she just shows up at his door, standing outside his house like a lunatic! HELP!

I have never understood the need or interest in stalking. What is in the people's makeup that causes this?

If it were me I wouldn't give this person one second of attention. Hopefully they will get bored because their need isn't being fulfilled and they will just find another victim. You might be able to qualify for a restrainer order but that would be giving this person attention - something that fuels their need.

I think she just enjoys being a psycho to be perfectly honest, her needless physical hate for me concerns me considering she knows what I look like and I have no idea who this girl is, I trust everything he tells me due to the fact he has evidence to back it up, but her constant need to always be there is completely stressing me out, involving the police seems to have angered her.