So I met this girl in college, she's in the same club as I am and I really like her. I checked her Facebook profile to make sure she didn't have a boyfriend and there was no sign of one. No pictures, relationship statuses or anything. She flirts with me quite a bit, she laughs at my jokes and jokes back, she gave me a hug when she left the party we both attended, when I was eating a toasted bagel at school she came up and took half of it. Yesterday she invited me(out of a group of friends present) to go do an errand with her and then she invited me to go see a movie with her and a group of mutual friends. But over this time, I've also found out that she has a boyfriend. This really caught me off guard but I do not think that they have been together very long. I guess my question is do you think she likes me? I tend to think she does but I have dealt with flirty girls in the past although I do not think she is one.

Why don't you just ask her out? It doesn't have to be a formal date. Just take her out for pizza and see what happens.

Marenteb,

From the way you write, it appears she is in love with you. What signs did she show which indicate that she has some other boyfriend? Did you talk to her? What does she say about your relationship, about you and about the love? The best way is to talk to her, esp. when she is so much in communication with you. She is the best bet. I do not think there is any communication gap among you. The problem is at a time when you do not have any communication with the person who is the apple of discord. It does not seem so in this case. Just talk with her. Right?

And, give the reply!

I know she definitely has a boyfriend because she went to a Detroit Lions game with him this past weekend. She doesn't really say all that much about her and her relationship with her boyfriend. I just find it odd because there isn't any evidence of it anywhere other than what she says, and a few other people know about it as well. But thank you for the advice! I think I am just going to wait it out and see where it goes